What is marketing – Part 7 – building a relationship.

Remember that the key point of going on a date is to start building a relationship.

Usually, to do this, you have to be:

  • Interesting.
    And interested.

This is key. You have to be engaging, funny, informative etc. but above all you have to be interesting to, and interested in, the other person.

You don’t just shout about yourself and you don’t just tell them how great you are. You talk to them about what’s important to them, you listen to what they say and you reflect it back at them.

Of course, what many people hope for when they go on dates is to find someone they like, who likes them, and then stick with them for as long as they are happy – which means they stop looking for or going on other dates.

Marketing is more like going on lots of different dates and building relationships with as many new people as possible, as well as maintaining the relationships that already exist.

In fact, marketing is about making as many people as you can/need, love you.

Love is crucial in a happy relationship and love is the crucial objective for successful marketing. And yes, we know that love is a very emotional word, and might feel weird in a business context, but bear with us, marketing is about getting people to love you, honest.

Think about people who love you:

  • They want what’s best for you.
  • They want to hear from you.
  • They want regular contact.
  • They care about your welfare.
  • They might even tell you what you are doing wrong.
  • They might help you overcome your faults and make you a better person.
  • They might introduce you to their friends and family.
  • They are less likely to cheat on you.

In business if they love you:

  • They want what’s best for you – so they might give you a good review.
  • They should buy from you because that is best for you, and for them.
  • They want to hear from you, so they will enjoy your emails, your website, your content.
  • They might introduce you to their friends and family.
  • If you ask, they might give you advice on how to improve things.
  • They should be monogomous – not buy from your competitors.

So, how do I get someone to love me – what do I have to do?

Carmen Dias

I recently booked onto the: 'Marketing Tactics - what to do, when to do it, and why you should' - facilitated by Martin and all I can say is that I've never enjoyed a full day training so much! It was a relaxed, informative of course, but most of all, engaging.

He planned the breaks out perfectly, keeping us refreshed! He used fun and creative ways to help us understand the multiple layers of what marketing is really all about. I usually dread training in fear of awkward breakout rooms, and being put on the spot but luckily Martin had found a natural way to make us feel comfortable to engage without all the awkwardness and anxiety!

Not once did I feel uncomfortable like I do in most training sessions. I'd highly recommend this course and any other with mcm2.

The years of experience, knowledge and enriching content along with all the fun made this easily one of the best courses I'd been on! 😀

Tim Watkins

Martin tutored the marketing module for the Director Development programme at University of Salford.

The module was a highlight of the programme, delivered with great insight, experience, knowledge, humour, and inspiration.

A genuine master of his trade.

Jessica Atkinson

I attended the "Marketing Tactics" training event and Martin shared some quality tips and advice. I would definitely recommend his expertise to any size business - he knows it all and has a great sense of humour!

We hope to work with him again in the future. Thanks Martin!

Suzanne Miller

I have attended several of Martins courses and each has always provided me with new fresh ideas and strategies to implement into my business.

He delivers the information in a way that is engaging and easy to process, and always makes time to answer any questions raised. His expertise and level of knowledge in all areas of marketing means he can provide the correct level of information to the course delegates irrespective of their experience.


Great courses, always a benefit, and always come away feeling inspired and positive about future marketing projects.

Genghis Perriman

Martin has provided RB Plant with an excellent value adding service in the time he has been working with us.

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Mark Littler

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Matt Mounsey

Great working with Martin. He built our website in the height of the pandemic so we we're only able to have a couple of zoom calls for him to gauge an idea of what we wanted and he delivered something we were really pleased with.

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After meeting Martin through one of his outstanding workshops I decided I required a superior web site, business cards and flyers.
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Sofia Warlow

We attended the Digital marketing workshops run by Martin on behalf of Reaseheath College and it was just brilliant.

Martin is extremely knowledgable, understands the growing pains of small businesses, their drive to market their products/services to a wider audience, but their restriction of time and budget. He guided us through our options, made us aware of the pitfalls and supported us to develop a plan of action. He has provided invaluable insight and food for thought.

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Emma Bird

Martin and his team have been absolutely amazing. Taking over the running of my business website and on going business support.

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Best decision I made was moving my website management seo over to MCM2 . Thanks

Anthony B

After many bad experiences with marketing companies either just not understanding our brand or overcharging us and providing nothing we were recommended Martin at mcm2 and what a delight, Martin listens and is fair.

He suggests what is best for our business and, not his own pocket.

He is very amiable, and he has a conversation with you rather than talks at you (unlike many other marketing “experts” I have met with) I can't recommend him enough. A true diamond in the rough.

Rachel Billington

I attended a digital marketing workshop led by Martin and really benefitted from the course. Martin's presentation gave me a clearer understanding of digital marketing, and I found it useful that it was tailored to our small business.

Martin was very informative and shared a lot of practical tips which I hope to implement going forward. Thanks Martin!

David Bretnall

I've just finished a 2 part online Social Media Marketing course hosted by Martin from his company MCM2. The course was really interesting and well presented and gives a really good insight into what I originally thought be quite a daunting and scary phenomenon.

Thanks to Martin I have now overcome this and learnt the basic do's and don'ts and how to create a relative straight forward strategy that will work for my business without it costing too much of my valuable time.

It's a must if you are just starting off, like me, or even if you have been running a business for a while.

Brew and Tucker

I met Martin through a recommendation from a friend of mine and I’m really glad I did. From our first catch up Martin was super easy to talk to and also cut the jargon.

No ‘tech speak’, no ‘up-selling’, just good advice. He was supportive through the whole process and continues to be so.

Lizzie Green

Attending one of Martin's courses is always a pleasure, not only is it informative, it is entertaining.

You come away feeling like you've learnt something that you can immediatley put into practise.

Sharon Shelbourne

Attended two sessions of a social media marketing course with Martin which was delivered virtually.

Complete with slides and an interactive iPad to explain how to get the most out of all your platforms. Lots of tips and expertise on finding your voice, creating meaningful content, fostering brand awareness and increasing traffic plus lots more.

Excellent use of my time!!

Amy Rogerson

I’ve used Martin numerous times now to help me set up websites. He is superb and always gets the job done in no time at a great price as well.

He is my go-to person for any work like this and is always very reliable.

Alex Morrisroe

Martin ran a very comprehensive marketing workshop. I would definitely recommend him for training and marketing support.